{"id":282,"date":"2025-12-21T19:08:24","date_gmt":"2025-12-21T19:08:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/raviral.online\/?p=282"},"modified":"2025-12-21T19:08:24","modified_gmt":"2025-12-21T19:08:24","slug":"11the-p-enis-of-black-men-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/raviral.online\/?p=282","title":{"rendered":"11The p.enis of black men is \u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Some black men do, sure. I\u2019ve known some like that. I\u2019ve also known some who are strictly all about black women.<\/p>\n

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If that preference for white women is so strong that they\u2019ll completely and totally ignore black women in the process, that\u2019s dating with blinders, and vice versa. Both bother me more than a bit, but hey\u2026as long as the two participants are content with each other, I can\u2019t really say I\u2019m comfortable making it my business to confront either group of men\/women. Both extremes are prejudicial, however, and frankly, you\u2019ve severely limited yourself in any possible search for someone compatible.<\/p>\n

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To make things worse, the acquaintances I knew with eyes strictly for white women would often become visibly irritated with me, simply because I refused to put those same silly blinders on. Why, lol???<\/p>\n

It irritated me because even though I was dating a black woman (one whom I later married, btw), I had absolutely no qualms with dating a white woman. Hell, the girlfriend prior to my future wife had been white, and had she not been from a family completely opposed to her dating black men, I could\u2019ve just as easily seen myself with her many years later.<\/p>\n

Anyway, I think it\u2019s much to do with exposure. I was raised in a black family, but in a white neighborhood. Because of my classes and extracurricular activities at school, I found myself alongside mostly white kids then. On the other hand, I also had to spend much time at church each week while growing up, which was almost exclusively black. Overall, it wasn\u2019t perfect- and not quite that simple- but today I\u2019m very thankful things shook out that way for me.<\/p>\n

Bottom line, I believe that if we weren\u2019t so collectively segregated in this country, we eventually wouldn\u2019t harbor so many assumptions and misconceptions. Get rid of misinformation, you eventually break down barriers. Break down barriers- this discussion and others like it, become a non issue, and our descendants likely wonder what all the fuss was about.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n